The point I am trying to make here is if someone is praying about something and asks a question we should think about the words we use in answering. Hurt from other believers is sometimes a very good open door for spiritual mind battles to start, and many Christians hardest battles are ones that started from hurt.
The path and plans God has for that person could be totally different than what he has for us and we need to acknowledge that in our responses. As I try to teach my children THINK before you speak.
The person that hurt my feelings probably had absolutely no intent to do so, but she was applying what God had planned for her life to the questions and comments I had placed about my life. We aren't all the same God has different uses and places for all of us we aren't all meant to walk the same exact path if so we wouldn't have a vivid detail of the body of Christ 1 Corinthians 12: